Saturday, August 25, 2012
There's a Monster at the End of This Book
Tuesday, August 14, 2012
A Fish's Heart, Liver and Gall: A Story of Comfort
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
Get Real... With God
Thursday, August 2, 2012
Eat More Chicken and The Young Generation
Saturday, July 28, 2012
Literate or Illiterate?
Tuesday, July 17, 2012
The Lord is My Shepherd (Part 3)
Tuesday, July 10, 2012
The Lord is My Shepherd (Part 2)
Monday, July 9, 2012
The Lord is My Shepherd (Part 1)
Wednesday, June 13, 2012
What Are Christians Known For? Part 2
What Are Christians Known For? Part 1
Thursday, March 8, 2012
No Magic 8 Ball
I wish there was a real Magic 8 Ball. You remember those big Magic 8 balls with different answers in it. When you had a question or needed help you would simply ask it a question, shake it and then it would tell you the answer to your problem. (There should be one with Bible verses so that when you asked it a question and shook it a certain verse would pop up. It would be much cooler than just opening up the Bible and pointing to any verse to get an answer).
In a few weeks I will graduate with my master’s degree and one chapter of my life will close a new one will begin. The problem: there seems to be a lot of option but I seem to find few answers (what I want is a plan that shows what will happen next). The Bible has many great verses that should bring comfort such as Proverbs 3:5-6 “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.” There are many other comforting verses but none that say “Hey T.J. its God this is what your next step looks like.” (It’s not in a concordance and I can’t find it online even if I do a Google search).
So what can I do? I have to be patient. The problem is that patience is not in my vocabulary. (Question: Who had the most patience in the Bible? Answer: Luke, because he was a doctor. Yeah no one else laughs at it either). I don’t want to wait. I want to know now. But life doesn’t work like that and God doesn’t work like that.
I also have to trust that God knows best. I have to trust in his timing and in his plan and trust that he will come through. Trusting is not easy either. But then I go through past experiences and realize that when I have trusted God before things work out. I think about how Southeastern wasn’t my first college choice but looking back it was the right one. I think about how I didn’t want to go back to Southeastern for my senior year but I’m glad I did (especially since I met Amber, my wife).
So there are my answers: patience and trust. (And I didn’t need a Magic 8 ball). They are not easy answers but then again not everything in life will be easy. So I will wait and trust in God knowing that as he has been faithful before he will be faithful again.
Monday, February 27, 2012
Road Trip!
The journey of a thousand miles begins with 1 step.
I am reflecting on the recent road trip that I just finished taking with my wife and pug to Virginia Beach. The trip was long; at times frustrating but the memories will last forever (the good and the bad). As I was reflecting on the trip it hit me that life is a long journey that is filled with multiple journeys along the way. So I’ll share two things that I learned.
I learned that the journey can take longer than expected. The directions to Virginia Beach said 12 ½ hours (I don’t trust Yahoo anymore). I figured about 13 ½ hours (I don’t trust me in regards to timing a trip anymore). It took 16 hours. Sometimes the journey takes longer than planned. For instance I planned on finishing my master’s degree in 3 years. It took 4 years but at least I am finishing. It may take longer to get where you want to be but don’t quit.
But also don’t be in such a rush that you forget to take in the scenes along the way. I will graduate with my master’s degree in May. The diploma is a piece of paper to show I completed my studies but it is so much more than that. It is a reminder of the journey that I took and the things that happened during the journey. It is about the lessons I learned, the books I read, the people that I met, that made the journey fun. It is about trying new things and doing things that you never thought you could. For example, I am finishing my thesis which will be over 40 pages long. I never thought I could write more than 15 pages but I surprised myself and realized that I am capable of more than I thought. These and other things have made the experience unique but it has also shaped me into who I am today. The journey is what makes us who we are.
I also learned that sometimes you go the wrong way. This should come to no surprise to those who know I am directionally challenged. I missed the turnoff (which I blame on bad directions) which probably added 1 hour to the trip. It didn’t mean that the trip was over. It just meant that I needed to figure out how to get back to where I needed to go and complete the trip. We did get back to where we needed to be but it also allowed us to go through small towns that we would have never seen otherwise. We drove past the small diners in town where people gathered for breakfast. We imagined what it must be like to live there (and wondered where the grocery stores were). They were things we would have missed if we didn’t go off course.
Sometimes in life we get off course. It’s not because we want to. Sometimes it is because of our choices. Other times it is because of circumstances that are out of control. Whatever the reason may be it does not mean that you’ll never get to the end destination of the journey. It might take longer. It might be painful. It may add value to your life. Joseph of the Old Testament experienced this in his life. He had a dream that took many twists and turns but at the end of his life he said about what had happened to him “but God intended it for good to accomplish what is now being done, the saving of many lives” (Genesis 50:12). It doesn’t mean that God does bad things so that we can learn a lesson. We live in a world where evil exists. I don’t know how God redeems situations that are bad but he can. And the good news is that He can help you get back on the path.
Life is a journey. Don’t be in such a rush that you miss what happens along the way.